Giving Grace

Published November 5, 2025


We all have someone who tests our patience — a coworker, a neighbor, or even a family member. They misunderstand, criticize, or drain our energy. Yet how we respond says more about our walk with Christ than their behavior.   Jesus didn’t avoid difficult people; He loved them. Even as He was betrayed and mocked, He prayed, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34) That’s the model of grace we’re called to follow.   Ephesians 4:32 reminds us: “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”   

Here are three ways to practice that kind of grace:   

1. Pray for Them.  

        “Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.” (Luke 6:28)   

         Prayer changes perspective. It reminds us that behind harshness is often hurt.   

2. Set Healthy Boundaries.   

      “Above all else, guard your heart.” (Proverbs 4:23)   

        Loving others doesn’t mean tolerating abuse. Boundaries protect peace.   

3. Respond with Kindness.   

     “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” (Romans 12:21)   

     Grace disarms negativity and reflects Christ’s love more powerfully than anger ever could.   

We’ve all been someone’s “difficult person” before. The same grace God gave us is the grace we must offer others.   

Domingo